Well, what a crazy few weeks it has been. Why does everything seem to happen at once? I have finally found work, coincidentally for the same company as Adam. With only being on minimum wage, you have to take everything into account. Nursery costs, travel costs, parking etc. They are all things that eat away at the pennies you finally get to bring home. Luckily, the store I will be working in is just ten minutes drive away, and Teddy's nursery is on the way. Perfect. The only way we could make the wage work, however, is how I had expected. One of our weekend family days has had to be sacrificed just to ensure I actually bring home a wage.
Nursery. I have to say, I am so pleasantly surprised at how well the whole finding a nursery, and Teddy settling in has gone. We chose the nursery based on a friends recommendation. For me the most important piece of information you could gain when choosing a nursery. It is such a lovely setting. Clean, bright, welcoming, all the staff are lovely and the children always seem so happy there. Teddy has a wonderful Key Worker who genuinely seems to love her job and care for the children. It's all you could ask for as a worrying parent. The nursery we chose also have an amazing settling in plan for the children who start there. So far, Teddy has been on three 2 hour visits (planned whilst the other children are napping so he has one-to-one care whilst getting used to his surroundings), 4 hours today, 6 hours tomorrow building up to a full day Thursday. We had tears Friday and today, but they reassured me after a few minutes he was fine and happily went to play with the other children. When we go to pick him up, he is absolutely full of beans with a huge smile on his face. It's a huge weight off my mind knowing he is in a safe place, being well looked after and having fun to boot. Phew!
My guide to choosing a suitable Nursery:
1. First and for most - Ask friends and family
Friends and families recommendations and advice are priceless. Asking the people you trust the most and have experience with nursery settings will narrow your search down. Ask them as much information about the staff, and their experience of the nursery as you can.
2. Check Ofsted report dates
Many nurseries now have huge banners outside boasting about their Outstanding Ofsted reports. Yes, those reports are invaluable to get an idea of how they follow the EYFS guidelines (Early Years Foundation Stage is the learning and development guidelines for all Under 5 Year Olds). However, Ofsted visits only happen once every 3/4 years, in which time the nursery could be under new management and could be a totally different place to how it was when the report was produced - So check the dates!
3. Have a tour round
Take the opportunity to take a tour around the nursery, with your child. Make sure to visit when the children are awake and playing to get a good feel for how the nursery work for the children already there. Is it clean? Secure? Are the staff welcoming? How do they interact with the children? Is there evidence of the children's artwork on the walls? It's your chance to have a really good nosy around and get a good feel for the place.
4. Ask questions.
Find out as much as you can. Ask about meal, snack and nap times. How will they track their development? What information will they relay to you, and in what format? What will their daily routine look like? If you forget anything, don't be afraid to ring and ask. The more information you have, the more comfortable you will feel to leave your child in their care.
5. Be positive!
It's so difficult to hand your child over to, essentially, strangers. You need to 100% comfortable with the nursery you have chosen. If you worry, and make a fuss when your child starts, they will pick up on it straight away and make the whole experience into a negative one. Be happy, talk about it, get them excited and be excited for them! They are about to start a whole new adventure outside the bubble that is your home, make new friends and learn new things. If your not happy, don't be afraid to consider changing nurseries. Just take into account notice periods are usually around 4 weeks.
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